Ever since I was introduced to it and took the test in high school, I have been fascinated by the Meyers-Briggs Type Indicator, or the MBTI. Since I tend to attract an educated audience, I won’t bore you with the details since you probably already know what it is. But in case you don’t, you can click here to find out more.
The MBTI has reared its head a few times as an undergrad, then again in graduate level courses and yet again in my life as a companion on various discussion boards and ladies’ blogs. I’m always interested in knowing the “types” of companions and the gentlemen we spend time with. Please share your type in my comments area. I have found that many ladies are ENFPs but I’m wondering if there’s a common type amongst patrons?
As for me, I am an INFP, The Idealist.
Taken from www.personalitypage.com:
INFPs are focused on making the world a better place for people. Their primary goal is to find out their meaning in life. What is their purpose? How can they best serve humanity in their lives? They are idealists and perfectionists, who drive themselves hard in their quest for achieving the goals they have identified for themselves
INFPs are highly intuitive about people. They rely heavily on their intuitions to guide them, and use their discoveries to constantly search for value in life. They are on a continuous mission to find the truth and meaning underlying things. Every encounter and every piece of knowledge gained gets sifted through the INFP’s value system, and is evaluated to see if it has any potential to help the INFP define or refine their own path in life. The goal at the end of the path is always the same – the INFP is driven to help people and make the world a better place.
Thoughtful and considerate, INFPs are good listeners and put people at ease. They have a very deep well of caring and are genuinely interested in understanding people. This sincerity is sensed by others, making the INFP a valued friend and confidante. An INFP can be quite warm with people he or she knows well.
In conflict situations, INFPs place little importance on who is right and who is wrong. They focus on the way that the conflict makes them feel, and indeed don’t really care whether or not they’re right. INFPs make very good mediators, and are typically good at solving other people’s conflicts, because they intuitively understand people’s perspectives and feelings, and genuinely want to help them.
INFPs are flexible and laid-back, until one of their values is violated. In the face of their value system being threatened, INFPs can become aggressive defenders, fighting passionately for their cause. When an INFP has adopted a project or job which they’re interested in, it usually becomes a “cause” for them.
When it comes to the mundane details of life maintenance, INFPs are typically completely unaware of such things. They might go for long periods without noticing a stain on the carpet, but carefully and meticulously brush a speck of dust off of their project booklet.
INFPs do not like to deal with hard facts and logic. Their focus on their feelings and the Human Condition makes it difficult for them to deal with impersonal judgment. They don’t understand or believe in the validity of impersonal judgment, which makes them naturally rather ineffective at using it.
INFPs have very high standards and are perfectionists. Consequently, they are usually hard on themselves, and don’t give themselves enough credit. INFPs may have problems working on a project in a group, because their standards are likely to be higher than other members’ of the group. In group situations, they may have a “control” problem. Without resolving this conflict, they will never be happy with themselves, and they may become confused and paralyzed about what to do with their lives.
INFPs are usually talented writers. They may be awkward and uncomfortable with expressing themselves verbally, but have a wonderful ability to define and express what they’re feeling on paper. INFPs also appear frequently in social service professions, such as counseling or teaching. They are at their best in situations where they’re working towards the public good, and in which they don’t need to use hard logic.
INFPs who function in their well-developed sides can accomplish great and wonderful things, which they will rarely give themselves credit for. Some of the great, humanistic catalysts in the world have been INFPs.
I highlighted the attributes that really resonate with me. I shared this with a dear friend and lover who exclaimed, “You, my dear, are the ideal Idealist!”
So tell me, what’s your type?
(Take a form of the test here or a very short version of the test here if you don’t know yours and are curious.)
to find that somehow, 2 other Twitter members were…like…waiting for me? I’m not sure what it’s called, but these 2 icons belonging to other members were there, and instantly became followers when I registered. I’m assuming they are linked in somehow through my email account, as I have exchanged emails with both of them in the past. And THAT fact makes it even more creepy! We are connected by little neurotransmitters via the the net.
